Is there any way to make a long-distance relationship work? Say, Miami to Chicago?
He lives in Chicago, I live in Miami, we met each other 4 weeks ago, and we went out for 2 weeks. He broke up with me on Friday May the 5th (yesterday!) and I wanna get back with him except we live in different places, and that's why we broke up.
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1 :
it's no good, it dosent work
2 :
To be honest no
3 :
No it will never work just forget it!
4 :
Yes! I've done cali to florda. It's easy, just tell them how you feel over the phone and act as if they were in person but you are talking to them on the phone. Don't think about the bad things that MIGHT happen. Think about the good things that WILL happen.
5 :
LOTS of money for plane tickets, otherwise what's the point. You can stay in touch, be friends or more, but don't think it will be exclusive unless it's for a limited amount of time, say in 6 months to a year one of you will move.
6 :
i had a few friends that had long distance relationships, and they are happy. sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesnt
7 :
If you both REALLY wnat to make it work, and if you can afford trips to visit, then sure. Otherwise, no it's too hard.
8 :
i dont know .still trying to work on my one.tell you how it turn out.
9 :
talk to each other daily. even if only for 10 minutes but hope for an hour or more. if you can talk to each other enough it will open doors for you. The nice thing is that you can truly be yourself. no acts no reading the other persons body language. it can be wonderful. Be honest, be open and don't try to be what he wants. be yourself and if it is supposed to work it will. My wife and I did this for over a year and we have been married for over 16 years now.
10 :
try it! what have u got to lose.
11 :
Yeah, it can work. (So can Globalisation - in theory!) I think the key here is that HE broke up with you, so that's saying thet either he is not willing to be committed or he doesn't trust that YOU are. Either way, that's a recipe for disaster. Put your 4 weeks down to experience and open the door to all the possibilities which are presenting themselves to you. Unless he suggests you get back together, I wouldn't push for anything, because you'll be pushing yourself into a lot of hurt and disappointment.
12 :
My girlfriend lives in New Mexico I live in Maine she spends 2 weeks out of the summer here. We talk on the phone alot write letter we think of each other often. For 4 years we've been thinking of each other and we get along just fine as long as she's in New Mexico.
13 :
girl don't even try a long distance relationship because that never works out.....and do you know why it doesn't work out because he lives far from you and you don't really know if he has a girl over there that he's with and he is not telling you about.....and there is also no romantic things going to happen because you can not kiss the computer and he is going to feel that....so what i think is you should look for a man where you like not far away from you.....i know you are going to find someone because every one always have someone out there waiting for them.....i wish you all of luck...... SINCERELY SHY GIRL
14 :
It could work but if one party thinks its not going to then no point putting the effort to make it work. Theres someone better out there.
15 :
I'm sorry but I don't think it'll work, I tried on from just missouri to indiana, and it went down in flames basically, and do you ever see him? If you don't then you won't know if he's cheating on you or something like that. If I were you I'd just stick with people in Miami.
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